Supporting Men In Being Compassionate Badasses After Retirement 



You'll gain more clarity about who you

are and what gives you a sense of meaning



You'll develop Ideas about how to

manifest that purpose in your life whether

through your work, service, or retirement.




You'll come away with a statement of

your purpose and your passion


You'll produce an action plan to help

 you accomplish that which gives you

meaning and purpose.





 "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek."

Carl Jung


"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away." ~Pablo Picasso



Retirement is a psycho-social process of identity transition and search for meaning,  i.e., creation of a new identity, which is triggered by retirement events, and enhanced by one's self-awareness and adaptability.


Your quest to find more meaning and purpose in your life begins with a free 30-minute strategy session intended to get a clear picture of what's going on in your world and to see if we're a good fit in order for us to proceed together. This time is meant to make sure that you are comfortable with my ability to be of service to you, and for me to gauge how I can best serve you. You'll be asked lots of questions about the issue you're concerned about, your thoughts and feelings about the issue, and what you might have tried to resolve it, either on your own or with others, and if there might be other issues related to it. One of the goals of the intake session is to determine how we can help shift your overall perspective, and provide the results you seek.


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If you resonate with my coaching approach to my primary focus of working with men who have or are planning to retire, you'll be pleased to know I also take the same approach in coaching the following issues:​​

  • Personal Growth

  • Health and Wellness

  • Improve Self Esteem 

  • Happiness / Fulfillment

  • Relationship Coaching

  • Finding a Life Partner

  • Clarifying Life Purpose

  • Gain More Peace and Serenity

  • Stress Reduction

  • Finding Balance

  • Boundary Issues


Set up a FREE 30-minute consultation to discover how your life can be re-purposed to

find the maximum meaning possible in whatever you're doing.


No matter what you're re-purposing, I'll help you identify  your purpose, your direction, create and set goals, create and clarify your vision, Identify, expose, and confront any limiting beliefs and  assumptions... because you're a freakin' badass!

1 HR.   |   $120.00


1 HR.   |   $120.00

Golf, beaches, and cruises may be great distractions, but if you're not even close to being done,  perhaps it's meaning and passion that you're looking for in your later years. Maybe you need to make money, maybe you don't. Either way, let's go get it


1.5 HR.   |   $150.00

Maybe you just need a new shared purpose. Maybe you need to come apart, or maybe you just need to befriend an ex. This is not couples therapy, it's about making a difficult relationship conscious for a whole lot of possible reasons. Ready? I'll help.

Fall in love with taking care of yourself:
A Mind, Body, Spirit approach to coaching.


We will work amazingly well together and you'll see results if...

  • You feel stuck in your life and career

  • You feel stuck after your career

  • You feel stuck in your relationship

  • You feel stuck in achieving your potential

  • You feel stuck trying to gain some clarity

  • You feel stuck and stressed

  • You just feel stuck

On the other hand, we probably won't be a great fit if...


  • You want a woo-woo coach - I'm not that guy!

  • You think life is unfair - of course it is, get over it!

  • You only want to work on time management and productivity skills

  • You have moderate to serious depression that is not being treated by a medical professional.



"Gary’s work and coaching is the cutting edge of integral and evolutionary consciousness on the planet. Gary helps men heal their shadow, wake up to their divine nature, and take responsibility for living as That in our world.”

“You took me deeper than I thought I could go. I now see some of the places I need to work on and look forward to continuing to do this work with you.”

“Garys' knowledge and openness are matched by his humor,  and centeredness, and balance. What he is, he imparts. Afford yourself the gift of this journey."



“Gary is dedicated to a purpose and a process, very knowledgeable, considerate, and dedicated to creating a more harmonious,  enlightened existence on Earth. I would definitely recommend this process to other men.”



“You’re an awesome, knowledgeable man … a skilled teacher with deep knowledge of your subject matter … and a skilled facilitator.”



by Gary Stamper

This is not an article that’s going to chew you out for being poor or broke when you retire, although that really does suck.  Let’s not fool ourselves: while having money will not be a negative once you are retired, there are a lot of people out there that have  401k’s, pension and retirement plans, and money in the bank who are still going to be miserable after they retire. Read More


by Gary Stamper

It’s no wonder we cannot learn to surrender. We have come to believe that we can control anything outside of ourselves, and it is an illusion. We do, however, have the ability to choose our thoughts and responses to everything. 

So let me suggest a couple of ways we can begin to learn how to surrender. Read More

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by Gary Stamper

Congratulations!  You’ve retired from whatever you’ve been doing in your professional life. It may have been a single career, a journey through a particular industry, or, like me, a continuous birth and rebirth process of many professional lives.  No matter how you pursued your professional life, if you were blessed, that journey filled you with purpose and meaning


The question now is, what’s going to bring you purpose and meaning - and joy - from here on out? READ MORE


by Gary Stamper

Although retirement is definitely a life event, like turning 21, marriage, or children, it’s not really an event, it’s a significant process.

If you’re like most of us, that process begins with an influencer or a set of influences that start the process. There are many forms that influences may kick off the process, some of which may include pre-retirement financial planning, the actual date of one’s retirement, or the question of “what do I do now?

by Manfred F. R. Kets de Vries in the Harvard Business Review, February 26, 2014

Most companies are woefully negligent in their understanding of the psychological dynamics of retirement. The default mode is simply to abandon people on the verge of retirement...

A retired CEO, Jerry was a sad, aging man who reflected constantly on the emptiness of his life. Listening to him, it became clear to me that he had never had any interests outside work. And the prospect of spending time at home with a partner who seemed to have turned into a stranger made him all the more depressed. READ MORE

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by Gary Stamper

An Integral Life Coach uses Integral Theory - an emergent  school of philosophy - that "seeks to integrate all of human wisdom into a new, emergent worldview that is able to accommodate the gifts of all previous worldviews.

"Integral Life Coaches are more holistic, complete, similar to the difference in looking at physicians trained only in western medicine and Integrative Physicians who are trained in multiple modalities such as Chinese herbs, acupuncture, and food as medicine." 



Bocas Del Toro, Panama

Panama 11+507-6171-0970
or message me on Facebook
Video  on ZOOM, Google Meet,

or Facebook Messenger



Bocas Del Toro, Panama

Panama 11+507-6171-0970
or message me on Facebook
Video  on ZOOM, Google Meet,

or Facebook Messenger